what a waste of 
paper, time and energy that book is. it shouldn't take more than a single sheet of 
paper, to figure out if someones worth your time.
hand the object of your affection a sheet of 
paper... asked them to write down 5 must haves and 5 deal breakers.
if the list doesn't work for ya... grab a new blank sheet of 
paper and give it to someone else.
oh, and if they need more than one sheet of 
paper, don't wait around for them to finish their list.